Wednesday, September 24, 2008

The Bond Between Parents & Children

The babies and their parents have a very special bond between them. The stronger you can make that link, the better for your baby.

How does this close to develop Bond?
Babies feel safe when they know they can rely on their parents for comfort and attention.

Babies cry for many reasons when you are hungry, tired or scared, when they are in pain or when they are sick. Crying or stick is the only way babies have to let you know something is wrong.

You can not be sure what your newborn baby cries in the media, but be patient. Before long, including her baby and learning to give the comfort of your baby needs.

Why is it so important to comfort babies?
By responding quickly to the comfort of your baby cries, he (or she) learns to depend on you. Her baby also needs to learn to trust that you will take care of him. This makes your baby feel safe and bonded to you, your parents, the most important people in your world.

His comforting makes your baby feel more willing to explore their environment. Comforting babies is the best way to love them.

If you ignore your baby cries, is angry with him, or if you want your baby or child to comfort you, you will learn not to depend on you.

Do not worry about spoiling your baby. Babies are not in bad shape if someone responds to their cries. Comforting babies is the best way to love them.

How can parents comfort babies?
It is important to respond quickly to your baby cries.

Here are some things to try:

* Look to the right in your baby's face and eyes to try to find out what is bothering her baby. Your baby cannot see clearly or very far. Bend down so your baby can look in the eye, or pick up your baby. Her baby facial expression can help you find out what the problem is. See your loving face can often help calm a baby.
* Keep your baby close. Talk calmly and quietly, or singing softly.
* Computers, rock and kiss her baby.

Some babies need more comforting than others, and some are harder to learn than others. You need to have patience.

If you are too tired or if you are worried about something else, it may be difficult to give your baby the attention it needs. And even if you want, sometimes you may not know what is wrong with your baby. This is normal.

Nobody is perfect. What matters is to try to comfort your baby most of the time.

How do you respond to your baby cries in the first year will help your child learn and develop for a long time.

So, show that your baby can depend on you. Touch and talk to your baby, and respond to their cries. This helps your baby feel loved, safe and secure.

Children who believe their parents protect them feel safe to go out and explore the world.

Comfort in the early months will help them play, learn, and get along with others as they get older.

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